How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 10:27
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Why is Roblox so laggy it’s unplayable? My computer is fine and the internet is great.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?
That's it for today.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What is your review of "Regent", episode 5 of Season 2 House of the Dragon?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why do some people have sex with dogs?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Do not set goals—set systems.
What I need from you?
How many trans people are lawful gun owners?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Does not procrastinate.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What is the most gay experience with your dad?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Making more friends is a goal.
How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
When you visit a store, do you go to shop or buy?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What kind of person does a narcissist hate?
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.